"I would urge you to see the truth of the situation you're in... That is my advice. It is not for me to tell you what you should have done or not done. The world in which you seek to undo the mistakes that you made is different from the world where the mistakes were made. You are now at the crossing. And you want to choose, but there is no choosing there. There's only accepting. The choosing was done a long time ago..." - Jefe in "The Counselor"
We all deal with consequences of our choices. The time to count up the cost is beforehand because hindsight is 20/20.
In other words, one can always see afterwards what action should or should not have been taken. There are times it is too late. Consulting God first can save a lot of regret.
"In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:6 WEB
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